Foreplay Don't Forget It!
Terrance Lile (Uncle Terry)
Men are often very selfish.
Sometimes males are unable to look past themselves and think of
others. Their egos often cloud their judgment, leaving everyone else
in the dust. In the case of intercourse, a male will often climax
and immediately roll over to fall asleep. Unfortunately for the
female, this is a common occurrence and without the proper
education, men will continue to get off and get out. Men tend to
look at the small picture and focus on instant gratification. The
key to happiness in a long-term or short-term relationship is to
pre-heat the oven; never forget foreplay.
Few women, unlike most men, are able to come to an immediate climax.
The term pre-heating the oven is used to relate to cooking. Perhaps
this analogy isn’t the best considering the majority of men,
including myself, aren’t very good at it. Nonetheless, it gets the
point across. Before throwing the frozen pizza in the oven, the
directions say something very important, “Pre-heat oven at 350
degrees.” Since men are really good at following directions, one
would turn the knob to 350 and wait a few minutes. This allows the
oven to get to a good temperature to allow the pizza to cook evenly,
and perhaps prevent it from burning. Now, the glory of a woman’s
vagina is hardly comparable to an oven. However, we shall not
hastily throw our pizza in because it is likely to get burned.
The female body has directions too. To prepare a woman for
intercourse typically requires about thirty minutes of foreplay.
This will allow a female’s vagina to be ready to receive you and
perhaps enjoy a climax or two but don’t worry, as she will not be
over cooked. Slowly embrace her and feel her entire body. She will
get pleasure simply from your contact and the anticipation of
accepting you into her body. Don’t act like you are in a hurry.
Take your time. Hug, kiss and play with her ears, neck and nipples
as you slowly work down toward that magic spot. At this point in
time it is not necessary to penetrate her, instead use your fingers,
lips and tongue as you continue to pleasure her. During this time,
do not stop caressing the rest of her body. After a few minutes
retreat your hand and avoid her genital area all together. She will
go wild from anticipation, causing her to get more and more wet for
you. As you since her eagerness from what may have seemed like an
eternity, slowly begin to have intercourse but don’t rush into
heavy thrusting. If you have rushed, it is possible the dryness of
her vagina can prevent you, and more importantly, her from having a
good time. Even with adequate foreplay some women produce very
little lubricant so don’t take this as a sign of failure, just
introduce a bit of water based lubricant. Always treat your lover
like a queen, and she will do wonders for you and your royal wand.
When it comes down to it, men enjoy foreplay too. For most men,
little is more satisfying than a woman enjoying giving pleasure to
him through an act of fellatio. Women need only to look at the man
while moaning, and he will love you forever. Also, there are men who
love to pleasure a woman through cunnilingus. A nice sixty-nine
formation is a surefire way to get the motor running. Foreplay can
allow him to get off once before or after enjoying a nice long round
of intercourse. Many younger men and some older men can ejaculate
multiple times if he is constantly aroused. That’s right gals; a
man can have multiple orgasms. Don’t allow him to roll over and
fall asleep on you.
Foreplay is essential to any sexual activity. Taking her to a movie
and buying dinner is not foreplay, so don’t even think about
counting that. If you want to enjoy the wonders of her body, let her
enjoy it too. Pre-heat the oven for about 30-40 minutes; don’t
forget it.
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